Friday, October 3, 2008

A Tribute To Dave

Dave is my stepfather and he passed away 10 YEARS ago today. Sometimes I can't believe it has been that long. He was an exceptional person and an all around fun man, but apparently he was needed more on the other side than he was here-although I think my mom has a bone to pick with someone on that subject! I wrote this little list quite a while back. It has some of my favorite memories and qualities about him. Although my children won't know their "Papa Dave" in this life, I have wanted to preserve some of my favorite memories about him as I've done with their other grandpas as well. Here are a few:

He loved to make breakfast and would always save me a pancake if I slept in.

We always had four-wheelers and for years I would have parties and have friends come over and also have the neighbors come and ride them. He was very generous with them and really enjoyed it when people had a fun time with them.

He loved Mexican food and knew how to find good guacamole and put salt on it! Yum! He is one of the reasons I love Mexican food so much.

He liked to dry the wet newspaper and other items off in the open oven! And it worked!

He loved to grill and was so good at it. (Even tried It in the house once-whoops!)

He loved to "tinker" in the garage and could fix anything.

He loved a good burger.

He loves my mom.

He was the epitome of true charity and would help anyone.

He was friendly, tolerant and respectful to all. He really was loved by many people.

He was one funny man and just plain made life fun! We still laugh at some of the things he said and did. We sure miss him!

P.S. Since it is game day, and he LOVED the Cougars...Go Cougars!!!

7 comments:

Vanessa said...

Awww, how nice. He sounds like a great guy!

Lisa said...

I remember 4-wheeling behind your house when there was nothing there! It was so fun. I also remember going to Yuba Lake once and Dave was driving the boat with us on that floatie thing in the back. He was a great person, I'm sorry he was taken so young...

Brandon and Jen Jensen said...

Thanks for mentioning the boat. Those were fun times!

sharonspot said...

Such nice comments. I remember Yuba lake too. What a great person he was, your tribute made me teary.

The aMAYSing Family said...

Dave was a cool dude! :) It was fun to see the picture of him and your mom. That's how I remember them in my head. I cant believe it's been 10 years.

I'm with Sharon - your tribute made me teary too!

Platt Lucky 7 said...

Thanks Jen for helping us remember Dave.

Tina said...

That was really sweet. I know you loved him so much. He came to our wedding reception too with your mom. I remember him being very nice.